Coffee with My Younger Self

I think about her often—the younger version of me.

The one who tried so hard to look confident, while quietly wondering if she had what it took.

The one who believed success was a straight line and you had to have it all figured out by now.

If I could sit across from her today, I’d tell her:

You don’t have to know everything.

You don’t have to earn rest.

And the right people will never need you to shrink to be seen.

I’d remind her that real confidence is quiet.

It comes from stacking small wins.

It comes from showing up consistently.

It comes from staying rooted in integrity—especially when nobody’s watching.

That’s what this work is really about.

Not just selling homes.

Not just growing teams.

But becoming the version of yourself you used to look for.

What would you tell your younger self? I’d love to hear it. Drop a comment or hit reply—let’s have that conversation.